If you win, you can lead. If you lose, you can guide. I lost. Therefore, I am going to guide you.
This is how you can choose your partner. In this case, 'your partner' means either a man or a woman. Well, never love a partner who is interested in your money. Many partners are interested in your money and they draw close to you in order to be financially sound. Partners drawn to you while you are poor or financially unstable will be with you until you die. But, those who will be drawn to you while your ship has arrived are unlikely to be with you. Why should you love someone who is drawn to you while you are financially stable?
A partner for life is like a shadow behind you. Some of you may have had a partner and he/she may have left you because you were financially unstable. That is what many of our 'apples of the eye' did but never trust your partner if he/she loves your money. Many of the partners love us because they see some potential in us as a partner. They love our money, property or what we may inherit in future.
May be you have had the same experience I have had. Some love us for our money, property and probably the positional power we may hold but love is not such a thing that should be measured in terms of what we look for in a person.
Your 'old flames' may be doing well in life, but can they forget the past? Can they look into your eyes? Can they be friendly the way they were once back? I hope not.
Remember, you have been who you are today due to the fact some of your loved ones have cheated you. Some of our worries and agonies are part of our earlier partners or old flames.
Remember, you have been who you are today due to the fact some of your loved ones have cheated you. Some of our worries and agonies are part of our earlier partners or old flames.
There are people who will come to you while you are rich and take whatever you have and leave you in the lurch. Do you have any? I have. Let us make a clean breast of our past. Why do we worry? We worry over what we could not achieve and what we cannot achieve. Probably what we could not achieve worries us much. Particularly, sexual relationships hurt us like the collective sting of a hive of wasps.
How many days do we weep a week worrying our our past, don't we? Lot of us. Have we learnt a lesson? If you have been cheated, we can do nothing. We can educate our friends by way of sharing what happened to us? Why not we share our worries with someone? Life teaches us lessons, do we learn a lesson?
Coaching for Life is Essential.
